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What Are You Supposed to Notice During EMDR THERAPY? A Therapist Explains
You've made the brave decision to start EMDR therapy. You’ve heard it can be incredibly effective for processing trauma, anxiety, and deeply held negative beliefs. But as your first session approaches, one big question might be looping in your mind: What am I supposed to notice? It’s a perfect question. Many people worry they might "do it wrong" or not experience what they're "supposed" to. First, let's get one thing out of the way. As a therapist, I can assure you: There is

Becky VanDenburgh
4 days ago4 min read


Can't Get Back to Sleep? This 4-Step Eye Movement Technique Calms a Racing Mind in Minutes
It’s the cruelest irony of the night. The moment you need your brain to be quiet, it decides to throw a rave. The red numbers on the clock glow—3:17 AM—and you’re wide awake. Your mind is a whirlwind of to-do lists, replayed conversations, and what-if scenarios. You know you need to sleep, but the more you stress about it, the more alert you become. If you’re tired of losing sleep to a racing mind, you’re in the right place. Forget counting sheep. We’re going to explore a sim

Becky VanDenburgh
Oct 214 min read


When Your Past Haunts Your Present: Unpacking the Link Between Trauma and Psychosis
Does the world sometimes feel… unreal? As if you’re watching a movie of your own life, or the line between your inner thoughts and the world outside has started to blur? For many, these unsettling feelings are confusing and frightening. Often, they are the echoes of a past trauma reshaping present reality in profound ways. This connection between trauma and psychosis is a path many people walk, yet it's one we rarely discuss openly. Let’s change that. Here at Think Well, Live

Becky VanDenburgh
Oct 145 min read


Navigating Relationships: What Is the Hardest Attachment Style to Date?
Have you ever felt stuck in the same frustrating relationship pattern, wondering why connection sometimes feels like a maze you can't...

Becky VanDenburgh
Oct 74 min read


Feeling Stuck? Why It's So Hard to Leave a Toxic Relationship (And How to Break the Trauma Bond
Have you ever felt magnetically pulled toward a person who is the source of your deepest pain? A relationship that feels like an...

Becky VanDenburgh
Sep 294 min read


Can Trauma Cause Memory Loss? Understanding the Brain's Response
Have you ever tried to recall a stressful event, only to find the details are blurry or missing entirely? It's a surprisingly common...

Becky VanDenburgh
Sep 233 min read


What's Your Relationship Style? Unlocking the Secrets of Attachment Theory for a Stronger Connection
Do you find yourself stuck in the same painful relationship patterns, moving from one partner to the next only to face the same anxieties...

Becky VanDenburgh
Sep 155 min read


How to Rewire Your Anxious Brain: The Science of Using Exercise for Mental Clarity
That familiar tightness in your chest. The racing thoughts that spiral into "what if" scenarios. The overwhelming feeling that you're...

Becky VanDenburgh
Sep 84 min read


High-Functioning Anxiety: The Hidden Struggle Behind a Put-Together Life
Introduction Picture this: you’re the dependable one. At work, you meet deadlines. At home, you keep everything running. To the outside...

Becky VanDenburgh
Sep 33 min read


Trauma Bonds: Understanding, Breaking Free, and Healing
Trauma bonds are one of the most confusing and painful experiences someone can go through. They often form in toxic or abusive...

Becky VanDenburgh
Aug 83 min read


Loneliness: The Quiet Struggle No One Talks About
Loneliness isn't just about being alone—it’s about feeling disconnected, unseen, or emotionally isolated, even when surrounded by others....

Becky VanDenburgh
Jul 292 min read


How Anxiety Affects Your Sleep (and What You Can Do About It)
If you've ever laid in bed with your mind racing, you're not alone. Anxiety is one of the most common causes of sleep disturbances,...

Becky VanDenburgh
Jun 201 min read


What is the RAS?
RAS The Reticular Activating System (RAS) is a network of neurons located in the brainstem that plays a crucial role in attention,...

Becky VanDenburgh
Mar 233 min read


Using EMDR Therapy for Trauma at Think Well Live Well Counseling and Telepsychiatry
In the realm of mental health therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) has emerged as a powerful and effective...

Becky VanDenburgh
May 14, 20243 min read


Navigating Anxiety: Insights from Think Well Live Well Counseling and Telepsychiatry
In the heart of America's heartland lies Indianapolis, a city known for its warm hospitality, picturesque landscapes, and bustling...

Becky VanDenburgh
May 4, 20243 min read


Navigating the Shadows: Coping with Depression
Depression, like a heavy fog, can envelop every aspect of our lives, casting a shadow over even the brightest moments. It’s a challenging...

Becky VanDenburgh
May 4, 20243 min read
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